Three of my friends including myself were on a trip to Dehradun last week. We didn't go there to see schools but we came across some of the famous schools there, some of them were very beautiful. There we observed girls of various schools and most of them dressed to attract and tried their best to reveal their legs in short skirts and kept their socks down in line with the ankle to show their legs. The school girls secretly compete with one other in terms of length of their skirts (shorter is better), dress to show and they keep on experimenting with their uniform in an indecent way. This is where the schools have failed to teach them good values and its also the mistake of the parents who don't realize that its bad.
At such minor age this should not be acceptable when all the focus should be on studies and mental development, these kinds of things are spoiling young girls. Bollywood movies, increasing western culture is one of the factors responsible for this.
Non-Muslim girls are becoming sexually active at a very young age while Muslims are trying everything to keep their children away from such things. Muslims teach their children good values, decency, modesty and great Islamic culture from the childhood. On the other hand Hindu parents don't teach their girls modesty and now it is evident that their girls are getting out of their hands, all this is happening in the name of modernization.
Telling you from my own experience “I did my schooling from a modern reputed English school in Bangalore but never forgot great Muslim culture and good values, I finished my schooling about 9 years ago. In those days it used to happen when some girl mostly Hindu used to experiment with her dress, shorten her skirt to look more attractive. In the morning we had to attend the assembly everyday to sing our national song and anthem. After the assembly some teachers usually sports teachers used to check our uniform. Girls who used to shorten their skirts or slide their socks down to show their legs were usually caught, they were warned not to repeat it again or even punished. But these days the situation is getting worse, it seems like schools are not doing enough to stop girls from doing it or I guess they are trying to show how westernized and so called modern they have become”.
The Muslims from good families are reluctant to send their girls to such so called modern schools which hasn't got any decency. Muslim girls who are taught good values, pride in practicing Muslim culture and how to dress modestly from the childhood usually stay away from schools which don't allow girls to wear anything other than skirts. Very few English school have Salwar Kameez as a dress code, the government schools have Salwar Kameez as a dress code for girls but the middle class or even the lower middle class citizens don't want their kids to study in poor government schools. Even many English schools don't allow Muslim girls to wear hijab. Muslims girls are usually sent to girls school by their parents or schools where the dress code is decent enough according to Muslim culture.
Hindu parents need to be pro active when it comes to grooming their girls. For school girls, having a boyfriend is becoming a fashion and something very important.
In schools, girls are competing against each other in terms of attracting boys. They compete with other girls in terms of dressing to attract.
The problem of indecent dressing among Hindu girls was earlier discussed by us in this post also http://indianmuslimpost.blogspot.in/2013/01/hindu-girls-indecent-dressing.html but that was among college girls and adult women. Now it seems that it has passed on to the minor Hindu school going girls as well which is a danger sign. For once I may accept college girls doing it but it is just not acceptable and is a sign of disaster if under age school girls are doing it and it means girls are getting spoilt at a very young age.
English schools have to sit down and take a hard look at the present situation. Skirts should be banned in Indian schools to stop girls who are negatively using skirts. Hindu girls are abusing skirts, using it wrongly which will not stop and only increase unless skirts are banned.